Have Him Doing the Same For YouHow to Continually Impress Your Man, and you
Have you seen couples who stay together regardless of how “women-friendly” the man is? He may stare at other women when he’s out but he will never feel the compulsion to get it on with the women he meets. They may throw themselves at him but he will resist, not because he feels guilty at the thought, but because he doesn’t want to expend energy on something that is completely unnecessary.
You see, when you continually impress your man through your words and actions, you will not need to do anything to keep his attention glued on you, whether or not you’re around.
There are two ways to keep your man impressed
1. Make him feel like you’re the only one who understands him by being his confidante. And,
2. Be irresistible to him by being secure about your sexuality.
Let’s discuss each one in turn:
How to be his confidante
The first requirement to making your man loyal is to make him realize that other women don’t know him like you do. Since he has you, he doesn’t need another confidante or another lover who will give him the kind of love you have to give.
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Being his confidante means knowing when to listen and when to do the talking; and when to keep and express your opinions. Some women never understood a man’s need to keep to himself. They think it’s healthy to always talk about issues as soon as they come up. These women’s emotions are all over the place, and they need to vent, rant and tell their men exactly what they feel as soon as the emotions start bursting out of control.
This is the time when the men shut up completely. They can do nothing but listen and pray it will be over soon. They keep their emotions bottled up because they can see that it’s pointless to argue. They keep quiet… or they pack their bags.
If your man really loves you, he will stay even if you’re shouting at him, trying to make him spill out his feelings like what you’re doing, but you have to understand that men don’t operate the same way as women when it comes to confrontations. Of course, I’m talking about the mature men who love you and won’t lay their hands on you even when they’re really pissed at your nagging. But everyone, including your man has a boiling point. And, believe me, you don’t want YOUR man to reach his.
The only way you can make him feel that you understand him is to let him open up to you. Do not force him out of his shell until he’s ready. If you’re too mad at him, stay away for a while and let your emotions calm down before facing him again.
When you’re completely rational and he’s willing to talk, gently take his hand and sit with him in companionable silence or engage in small talk. If he wants to talk about his feelings, he will be acutely aware of each lull in the conversation and feel safe enough to discuss the issue with you because you made him feel relaxed enough.
Next up, tell him you will listen to him and promise not to react violently or interrupt him. When he starts opening up to you, look into his eyes and hold his hands. This will create a sense of unity, like you’re telling him you’ve got his back no matter what happens.
When he’s done confessing, express your need to talk about your feelings. Speak slowly and calmly, making sure that he doesn’t misunderstand a word you utter. If you cannot find words to express his emotions, kiss him on the lips and hold him close. Make him feel your appreciation at his honesty, reward him with affection… which brings us to the second segment of this letter…
Be completely comfortable about your sexuality, so that he never feels the need to stray. A lot of insecure women feel unsexy and unloved when men don’t make love to them whenever the opportunity comes up. They don’t feel sensual when their man doesn’t touch them intimately. They think their men are acting cold when they don’t get the reaction they want.
Feeling slighted when your man does not respond to you is a sign of insecurity. Let me explain… In the situation described above, tune in to his sensual needs by touching his face and his arms. More than just using body language, tell him you feel intimate with him at that moment and gently guide his hand to wrap around your shoulders. Now, if he resists, it means he’s feeling too vulnerable or too emotionally wrecked to make love.
In other words, his emotions are completely in tune with his physical desires. Make him feel it’s OK if you stay wrapped in each other’s arms without touching intimately. Let him breathe in your scent and continue soothing him with just your presence. This lets him know that you’re there, a passionate woman, ready for him, but will not pressure him to do anything. Of course, when he reacts strongly to your comfortable, yet incredibly sensual presence, it’s time for you to project the confidence that you have in your own sexuality.
Do these two things and you will have your man raring to see you and come home to you every day. Why should he even glance at other women when he knows he has an insightful, understanding and sexy siren waiting for him to come home?
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